1. Hypothetically speaking, I don’t think it would help not hurt sociality because everyone would feel the same in regards to anything. Everyone would feel positive and keep there heads up when its the right time but they will also feel down and ashamed within time. It would actually balance with eachother if it was not normal.

2. Not necessarily would it feed into the Me generation because in reality everyone thinks about themselves before others. Everyone wants what is good for themselves and what makes them feel good and happy. So by trying to build up their self esteem, I believe would not feed to the Me generation because they are just focusing on there own emotions before others.

3. Healthy self esteem can become arrogance when everything in that persons life is going perfectly well for a while. In life there is always a balance, (Good vs Evil, Fire vs Water) so having a healthy self esteem is good but sometimes people take it to the extreme and believe that they are the best, or they believe too much in themselves, which in reality it is not wrong, but it just becomes annoying and arrogant.

4. pros – I believe would be that people would feel sorry for you and help and give you everything, People would pity you and pay more attention to your situation. Then again that is a con because you should not need people helping you because you have low self esteem.

con – you will waste your life sitting on a bench wishing life would change for you but nothing would ever happen. Thinking low of yourself and having low esteem would just bring distress and depression.

5. Yes because you are the way you are and there is very little if not none on changing it. People do not realize it is very hard to change on ways of doing things. Not everyone can do a 180 and change opposite direction in life. So you should be happy the way you are and accept that that is how life is.

hope this can help.
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