To tell if you have low self-esteem, look in the mirror and analyze how you feel about what you see. Identify low self-esteem that greatly affects people’s lives with tips from a licensed psychologist in this free video on self-help.
Expert: Dr. Art Bowler
Contact: www.drartbowler.com
Bio: Dr. Art Bowler is a licensed psychologist with a boutique practice in New York City.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller
Duration : 0:1:23
I’ll tell you what …
I’ll tell you what NOT to do when you have low self esteem: eat psilocybe cubensis and look in the mirror… xD
I think my physical …
I think my physical appearence is alright, but that is just thanks to my parents x) I feel my personality needs to be “worked at.”
Am i wrong for feeling this way?
im 18 and still …
im 18 and still havent had a gf,the only reason i missed the chance to be with so many girls is because of my low self esteem.i wish i could be born again
i consider myself …
i consider myself good looking and i avnt had a girlfriend in years lol if you dont like something about urself change
sorry to hear that …
sorry to hear that mate, but you aint alone in that regard.
Well all I can say …
Well all I can say is that u guys/girls have better self esteem then I do…because u all say u think ur good looking…..for me ik I’m not since even friends and family like to pull the ugly card on me offten. (haven’t had a girl friend my whole life)…..so I shut down. Call me a loser or watever u want iv heard it all b4….
Dr. Bowler, good …
Dr. Bowler, good info, thanks.
@inov8or
Well, …
@inov8or
Well, i’ve got good news for you.
I’m a gay guy with a lot of attractive female friends, and believe me women really aren’t that picky. All the hollywood movies and the media delude it for straight guys, but ultimately women want you just as much as you want them, even the beautiful ones.
You should really watch ‘The Secret’ if you haven’t already
Good luck man
yep, amen to that.
yep, amen to that.
@Jambrandon531
I …
@Jambrandon531
I have the exact same thing dude, i think im an attractive guy, but when it comes to beautiful women i always think im not good enough for them
@matthewm0311 :
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@matthewm0311 :
Hear! Hear! Apart fr realists, I’ve noticed low self-esteem tends to plague those with a perfectionist streak, too.
Damn, I think of …
Damn, I think of the same here too. You know, our thoughts & opinions about ourselves and towards others is really what makes things go bad. Have you watched ‘The Secret’? That helped me allot.
“Like, what if …
“Like, what if someone honestly could be considered a failure, and they know it well, so that suggesting otherwise really involves an element of self-delusion.”
This should be used in a stand-up comedy act.
i have low self …
i have low self esteem because i feel women dont like me yet im handsome and dress nice i just cant get the out my head each time i see a beautiful woman i hear my mind saying you a loser you cant get no women
how would u know …
how would u know the symptoms of LSE
unless you’ve had it?
Ya. good advice …
Ya. good advice though
Such a fag!
Such a fag!
my best friend …
my best friend kelsey always downs herself she’ll look at a pic of herself and then she’ll say Oh I look so ugly in this picture, and I told her you do know you’re bringing yourself down, she said I dont care then I was like well You’re going to lower your self esteem and it isn’t good for you, she kept saying nasty things about herself, and until one day I told her she should stop, she ACTUALLY listened to me and plus that her BF helped with that to. so shes been pretty good about it lately!
thats exactly what …
thats exactly what i was going to say…. Sometimes I think my low self esteem comes from being a realist. Because when I am doing well and accomplishing goals my self esteem always seems to be high.
I kind of wonder …
I kind of wonder though. What if you do that honest appraisal of a person and their life, accomplishments, personal traits etc. really DO suck badly, to put it bluntly?
Like, what if someone honestly could be considered a failure, and they know it well, so that suggesting otherwise really involves an element of self-delusion.
I am wondering this, because fact is… there ARE cases of low-self esteem where they have a reason to feel that way, even if its not doing them any good.
many people with …
many people with low self esteem rely only on their looks to feel good about themselves. they look in the mirror, like what they see, and believe that is who they are. yet they are crushed by lack of adulation – you have to tell them all the time how great they are because they are beautiful? shallow. healthy self esteem comes from within even if you aren’t a beauty by common standards. you feel good about who you are, not about how you look and you make other people feel good too!
wow!! my friend is …
wow!! my friend is going CRAZY!! she thinks she has low sel esteem!! it’s so annoying! thanks