Comments for Self Esteem Matters

Comment on Is the trick to self esteem building your own self up verbally? by T C

T C — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 16:17:59 +0000

If that works for you, go for it. The real feeling of self esteem, is knowing you did your best everyday. Even when it appears you screwed up. As long as you satisfy your own expectations, you will exude confidence and others will see it.
Michael Jordan couldn’t make the high school basketball team (his coach told him he wasn’t good enough). Football Hall of Fame member Joe Montana, was told he couldn’t even be water boy.
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Comment on What are the symptoms of low self esteem in men? by Elle

Elle — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 16:01:59 +0000

If you are in a relationship, look for clingy-ness or being needy. Though, the symptoms of low self-esteem are pretty similar to women. He might put himself down, he might not make eye contact, maybe stares at the ground when walking, etc.
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Comment on What are the symptoms of low self esteem in men? by perspicat1

perspicat1 — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 15:55:59 +0000

I think that there are two main ways that we (men) show low self esteem: either by being very shy, or by putting other people down. Some men with low self esteem don’t feel that their contribution is worth very much, or can’t think of any reason why anyone would like or respect them. So they just keep to themselves or are afraid of being noticed.

That’s just the opposite of some other men. They try to hide their low-self esteem by bashing other people, in order to feel better about themselves.
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Comment on Is the trick to self esteem building your own self up verbally? by (v)ï©}{¥¤þøø

(v)ï©}{¥¤þøø — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 15:35:59 +0000

I think it’s good to do that,but I think there’s more to it than JUST that. For example,you eventually have to start believing in yourself,realizing that you’re just as good as anyone else.
Learn how to stop paying attention to what someone else thinks of you,and loving yourself for who you are,and accepting your flaws.
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Comment on Is the trick to self esteem building your own self up verbally? by Beyonce_9481

Beyonce_9481 — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 15:21:59 +0000

yeah i think so
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Comment on What are the symptoms of low self esteem in men? by Chuck

Chuck — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 15:09:59 +0000

Symptom #1 Inability to get hoad.
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Comment on Is the trick to self esteem building your own self up verbally? by HIRH

HIRH — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 14:52:59 +0000

It's a great tool to recognizing yourself for a job well done.
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Comment on What are the symptoms of low self esteem in men? by Weasel

Weasel — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 14:44:59 +0000

same as women

(http://ezinearticles.com/?Symptoms-of-Low-Self-Esteem&id=1053528)
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Comment on How or what are some I can get high self-esteem and not be so sensitive? by Danielle F

Danielle F — Mon, 24 May 2010 16:27:59 +0000

Take your best friend and ask her what her favorite quality about you is, and take turns. It can actually be kinda fun, and it reminds you that you are beautiful.
Go for a light run or just play around outside, that little excerice will make you feel better.
Just stare at yourself in the mirror and try as hard as you can to find everything about yourself beautiful.
Write down your problems. Jot down all your insecurities onto a little piece of paper and hide it somewhere. Maybe in a couple years you’ll find it again and laugh.
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Comment on What are some great ways of building self-esteem? by Mary E

Mary E — Mon, 24 May 2010 16:21:59 +0000

yea, find a project or talent that you are good at. It’s there u have to explore to find it. Tell yourself you are worthy. Because you are! There is a great plan for you just waiting to unfold. If you pray or read the Bible just scan thru and you will know how wonderfully made you are.
When I feel down I dye my hair different, get a new style, put on make up differently and it helps me to get a fresh start. That sounds silly , i am 52, but i like to do new things. You are very brave for just asking that question. Hold your head high, you are somebody special.
Another idea is visit an assisted living, visit someone that is lonely,(all of them are) It will make you feel needed and loved. Do it for the sake that you were born to love and be loved in return. You will find a way!
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